Etiquette
Deposits:
The deposit amount differs based on the duration of the date:
- 6 hours or less require a $100 deposit
- more than 6 hours require a $200 deposit
- Overnight dates require a $500 deposit
- FMTY requires 50% deposit
- Tours require a 25% deposit
I do not accept dates without a deposit.
Deposits can be made through:
- E-transfer to ivyeverly@proton.me - this is preferred! The security question must be "What city?" and the answer must be "Toronto".
- E-giftcards to to a store of my choice. The email is ivyeverly@proton.me. If the store has a maximum amount for giftcard balances, you may send multiple giftcards.
- Cash deposits can be made for future dates while on a date.
Please only send the amount of the deposit, not the full investment!
The remainder of the investment is required in full at the start of our date. Please present the investment (minus the deposit) in an envelope at the beginning of our date. If meeting at my incall space, please place envelope in a clear place. If meeting in public, please put this envelope in a card, book, or gift bag for discretionary purposes.
Dates are not confirmed until deposit is paid. You do not have a date time reserved until the deposit has been received.
Screening:
Screening is required to ensure that I feel safe and comfortable meeting you. I appreciate that the process may seem daunting for clients, but the information provided to me will be kept confidential (except in extraordinary circumstances). I value your discretion, but not above my safety. If you're unwilling to screen through my preferred methods, I wish you well on your search for a companion that suits your needs.
For first-time clients, please see the "Bookings" section on my website to set up a date and provide screening information.
If you require any accessibility accommodations, please also include this in your introduction so I can do my best to provide the accommodations. I have knowledge and experience with sensory issues, physical impairments, and neurodivergent folks.
Mandatory Screening Requirements Include:
• photo/scan of government-issued ID (driver’s license, passport, health card). You may block out your address but I must be able to see your full name, photo, date of birth, and the expiry date.
• 1 additional photo of your face (i.e., a selfie, no group photos). This must match the ID.
OR
• LinkedIn profile (with reasonable amount of connections and activity). A screenshot of evidence that you’re logged in must be provided, not just a link to the profile.
• 1 additional photo of your face (i.e., a selfie, no group photos). This must match the face on the LinkedIn profile.
OR
• 2 positive references from established independent Canadian providers. You must contact the other providers in a professional manner for consent. I will need their full working name, their email address, and another verification piece such as their website address, Tryst ad link, or their Twitter/X username.
• 1 photo of your face (i.e., a selfie, no group photos). This is so I can identify you when we initially meet.
Cancellations:
Deposits are non-refundable (except in the rare circumstance that I need to cancel). If you need to cancel, it would be greatly appreciated if you can let me know as soon as possible!
Cancellations within 24 hours forfeit their deposit. Cancellations with more than 24 hours notice may reschedule within 6 months of the original date, using the original deposit.
On tours, cancellations made within 48 hours forfeit their deposit. To remain in good standing, I may require a cancellation fee at my discretion.
Late Policy:
Although I value punctuality, I understand if you unintentionally arrive late. Life (and traffic) happens! I allow a 15 minute grace period before the time begins to cut into our allotted time. The rate will remain the same as the amount we originally agreed upon.
Same-Day Availability:
I prefer to schedule dates a minimum of 1-2 days in advance. I live a very busy life outside of companionship, and so it's rare that I have same-day availability, although it's worth asking if I'm available! I need a minimum of 3 hours notice to prepare myself for our date.
To expedite the screening process, please have your screening information readily available (or preferably send it in your initial contact). References aren't accepted as screening for same-day dates.
Boundaries:
Consent is an on-going process throughout the appointment!
Unsafe services are not offered. No amount of money is worth the health and safety of myself and my other clients. My boundaries are firm, and any persuasion/coercion will not be tolerated!
Health and Safety:
Testing:
I ensure that I receive full testing regularly (bloodwork, physical exam, urine sample, vaginal swab, and throat swab). I strongly recommend that clients who see myself and other providers are also regularly getting tested. Your health should be a priority! If you're unsure how to get tested, I can provide some guidance for those who live in Toronto.
Hygiene:
I ensure that I'm freshly showered, have impeccable oral hygiene, and take all necessary steps to ensure that I'm as clean as possible for our dates! I would appreciate the same on your end. This includes flossing, lathering soap in every crack, crevice, and fold, and trimming and cleaning underneath your nails. Please ensure cologne and scents are applied lightly. I'm sensitive to the smell of cigarette smoke, so please keep this in mind.
If I'm hosting, I'm happy to provide mouthwash, mints, gum, deodorant, a shower, and soap. If you have specific products that you like using, you're more than welcome to bring them.
As for grooming, I prefer trimmed hair. Short stubble can be painful and irritating to my delicate skin, whereas an unruly bush can intervene in oral exploration. Hair can hold onto bodily odours that a quick shower often can't fix. Ultimately, your grooming style is your choice.
References:
I do accept references for screening purposes. You need to obtain 2 positive references from established independent Canadian providers that you've seen in the last 12 months. Please inquire in a professional manner and ensure you have their consent to provide a reference. I will need their full working name, their email address, and another verification piece such as their website address, Tryst ad link, or their Twitter/X username.
References are not accepted for short-notice date requests.
I can also provide references for you if we have met at least 2 times. You must ask my permission beforehand so that I can ensure your privacy.
Reviews:
I do not consent to reviews being written about me, whether they are good or bad! Review boards violate my requirement for discretion and are potentially incriminating for the client. Each experience with me is unique and can't be replicated on the basis of individual chemistry. I have set standards for myself as long as adequate hygiene and respect are upheld and my health and safety aren't compromised. I believe every sexual experience is the sum of those involved, meaning that your attitude and actions play a large role in your experience.
Please do not come to me with a list of acronyms to fulfill.
If you'd like to share your experience, I welcome emails with feedback.